Agency belongs to every person, always.
Bonded supports consensual adult relationship structures. It never turns a role into real-world ownership or removes anyone’s right to say no, pause or leave.
Consent must stay current
A past yes is not a permanent yes. Every partner can update boundaries, withdraw approval from an agreement, request discussion about a routine or pause the entire dynamic. These actions do not require partner approval.
Emergency pause
Emergency pause immediately stops assigned routines, deductions, follow-ups, reminders and dynamic-specific notifications. The partner who activates it decides when they are ready to resume. A reason is optional.
Shared rules require shared approval
Proposed rules and agreements remain pending until every active partner approves the exact version. Editing approved text creates a new version and a fresh approval cycle.
We do not support harm
Bonded does not provide physical-punishment tracking, deprivation tools, forced compliance features or functionality that encourages injury, coercion or non-consensual activity. Reports involving threats, underage concerns, coercion or privacy violations receive priority moderation.
Support beyond the product
Bonded is not an emergency or clinical service. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Regional safety resources configured by platform administrators appear in the in-app safety centre.